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Showing posts with label MS-13. Show all posts
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Tuesday, June 2, 2015

Three Men

If you ever wonder about what's wrong with this place, two men's stories this week will answer that. If you want to know about change, there's a third.

Ziggy, a guy I've written about before, has diabetes. He has significant pain and is prescribed Naprosin. Naprosin is not a narcotic. The doctor here prescribed three doses daily. A few weeks ago, they changed his dosage--twice daily and lower doses (and, every time the prescription expires he goes almost a week waiting on the renewal). So, Ziggy goes to medical to see the doctor--only the nurses won't let him discuss it with the physician (talk about gatekeepers!). The nurses say, "we know what's best and you only need Naprosin twice daily." Ziggy's a big fellow--kind of looks like Baloo the bear in "Jungle Book." He says, "you aren't my doctor--you clearly aren't my ortho; I want to see the Doctor." What happens that afternoon? Ziggy is called out to the investigators for a "routine" urine test and he's asked if he has a drug problem. Funny but there isn't anything "routine" about an investigator call (I know from my own experience with the blog) and they don't "piss test" midday. That's just their way of saying, "we decide medical."

Then there's K--his jacket says he's a gangbanger (because his brother was affiliated). He isn't and the investigators know it. They tell him "we'll get around to fixing it...soon." But, soon isn't anytime "soon." Meanwhile, he goes home in 6 more months. No one wants that label on them, especially when they aren't involved. But, that's how it goes in here--they take their time doing things and then wonder why no one respects "the system." The system is corrupt, badly mismanaged and isn't doing what the taxpayers think--it isn't cost effective, it doesn't rehabilitate people, and it wastes money.
That's a hell of a trifecta!

Then there's the good story--Mr. Rodriguez. He's a thirty-year-old El Salvadorian. At 12 he joined MS 13; at 14 he was arrested as part of a homicide; he ended up at Sussex at 16; he had a 5th grade education and had never read a book. That "lost refuse" is now a reader and completed my computer class. He is a changed man... not because of this place but because he used his time productively. I reread Viktor Frankl's book, Man's Search for Meaning, the other week--and it is clear: you can overcome anything (even the idiocy of the VA DOC system) if you have hope and believe.

It took Mr. Rodriguez a while to figure that out--life in the projects wasn't easy and he did some bad things, but he is a survivor and he is becoming a better man, in spite of this place.


Three men, three stories; unfortunately these stories play out everyday in here with the system dragging its feet and few overcoming.

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Biades

One of my advanced writing students has become a close friend. His name is Biades {pronounced “Bidez”} and he’s a 25 year-old from LA. He’s lived a tough life. Born in LA, he grew up in some of the toughest Hispanic neighborhoods in Southern California. A number of his relatives have done or are doing, prison sentences. His mom kept him clear of MS-13, the notorious Salvadorian gang, but not the police.



He did jail time in the LA county jail. He moved east, settling in Northern Virginia, met a girl and had a daughter who is now five. Three years ago he was busted for transporting ten pounds of weed. He has one more year to go and is enrolled in the college/IT program.


I can tell a lot about the guys in here by how they behave with their kids. Biades’ little girl comes down here monthly to see him. He calls her twice a week. I’ve seen him interact with her, seen him light up when he shows me pictures. He loves his daughter and even though miles and a fence separate them, he’s still “her daddy”. He still is actively involved in her life.


He writes amazing poetry, mostly dark poems about street violence. But then, he writes a poem for his daughter on Christmas and on Halloween, sweet lyrical poems about pumpkins or snowflakes.


He and I were talking the other day. He’s committed to not coming back. “I don’t want to ever miss another Christmas with her.”


Guys like Biades deserve another chance. He’s doing all he can to overcome his mistakes. His little girl deserves her daddy back.