First, the school bathroom became a “love nest” this
week. Two men, not known to be
supporters of gay marriage, were caught “entangled” in the four commode stink
hole that is the facility’s “school bathroom”.
Nothing, it seems, is beyond the realm of possibility in here.
This past week the booth began announcing “female officer on
the floor”. No one’s sure why. I’ve always wondered why so many women
willingly work in this environment. Fraternization
is a serious problem. And female
officers are both ogled and ogling (they routinely walk into the
bathroom). Equal employment means women
have a right to work here. Two questions
come to mind. Why then, are male
officers limited in their ability to work around female inmates? And, why does the prison need an announcement
when a female officer does a walk through?
Sometimes what’s said tells us more about what those in charge think
than just the words taken at face value.
I’m pleased to report that all three hospitalized students
are now back in 4A. But, Mustafa fell
out – flu like symptoms. Me? I received my flu shot Friday. Inmates over 50, kitchen workers and the
chronically ill automatically get them.
One week into the new “grooming policy” and beards are
coming out everywhere. It’s funny, but
guys equate facial hair with freedom. If
they only equated education and rehabilitation the same way, recidivism rates
would collapse.
The NAACP announced in Richmond this week a renewed push to
automatically restore felons’ voting rights.
350,000 Virginians – 6% of the eligible voting pool – are currently
disenfranchised because of the felon voting exclusion. Virginia is one of only four states that do
not automatically restore a felon’s rights upon completion of their
sentence. Governor McDonnell was quick
to announce how many voting rights he’d restored. While he is to be commended for his efforts,
1800 felons is a small percentage of the total.
And, what happens when he leaves office?
There is no guarantee the next governors will view voting right for
felons as an important political issue.
Felons deserve a say so in this country’s, this state’s direction once
they’ve completed their sentence.
And two quick updates on former students. “Live”, the gang leader who was indicted six
months ago for sending out “hits” from here has plead guilty in exchange for a
relatively short (9 year) sentence (51 years was suspended). The poorly kept secret around the compound
was that two gang members were called to testify against him.
On a positive note, “Bigs” – a gentle giant of a student (6’4”,
300 lbs) went home three weeks ago after eight years. Within a week he found a job as the Newport
News shipyard working as an electrician’s assistant.
A final thought. NFL
referee Ed Hochuli gave a great quote the other day. Speaking about the failure of his first marriage
twenty years ago and the pain he caused his kids he said the following: “When you fail you have to kick yourself in
the ass and go on.” I know exactly what
he means.
Are there really that many fights.....sexual encounters? I am involved with an inmate who shares nothing about what goes on in there. He thinks he is protecting my sensibilities! I however share every aspect of my "civilian" life, and feel left out. I know he feels the time spent in there is useless.....senseless, that's about all I get. It is my first experience,not his. His family says he will share once he is home, and he says....our time on the phone and during visits are his only break from it, so he chooses not to talk about it. I think I check your blog to satisfy my need to know what he deals with on a daily basis, but I also think I just enjoy your blog. May I just say I am sorry your wife decided to abandon you. I couldn't do that. I will stand by him, until he comes home. That's me proving my loyalty. When he comes home, he will have to prove his.
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